When I became a Siberian Husky momma to Ms. Maggie Waggie almost five years ago, I thought I had it all figured out. She was crate trained, shock collar trained, prong collar trained, and obedience trained—all before the age of two. I was determined to make sure she followed every command, every rule, and never stepped out of line.
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What I learned along the way changed my life.
Discipline Without Connection
Discipline is important for dogs, especially Huskies. They need structure, rules, and to know who the leader is. I thought I was doing right by Maggie. I wanted her to sit when I said “sit,” lay down when I said “lay,” and stay when I said “stay.” If she didn’t, she faced consequences.
But years later, I started to notice the toll it took. Maggie would tuck her tail and submit to me—and not just me, but to any man she encountered. I hadn’t realized how my approach to discipline created fear, confusion, stress, anxiety and more for her.
And before some of y’all think, “She’s just a dog!” let me say this: Maggie isn’t just a dog. She’s my best friend.
A Hard Look in the Mirror
My attitude and actions toward Maggie forced me to reflect on myself. If I could impose that level of control and punishment on an innocent creature, what was I doing to myself?
The truth wasn’t pretty. I discovered that the foundation I had built to survive in life wasn’t serving me anymore. My approach to Maggie mirrored how I treated myself—critical, harsh, and unforgiving. It became clear that my discipline-first mindset needed to be replaced with a relationship built on love and understanding.
Healing for Maggie and Me
Rebuilding my foundation wasn’t easy. I was scared. How do you unlearn habits and patterns that feel like they’ve defined you for so long? But I knew I had to.
Maggie deserved better—and so did I.
Through work, dedication, and commitment, I began healing. I let go of the need to control every moment and started prioritizing connection over correction. Maggie taught me how to love unconditionally, both her and myself.
Life Lessons from a Husky
- Reflect on Your Actions – What we do to others, even our pets, can reflect what we’re doing to ourselves.
- Discipline with Love – Structure is important, but so is connection. Build trust alongside rules.
- It’s Okay to Start Over – Rebuilding takes courage, but it’s worth it for your own peace and the ones you love.
Maggie helped me see the value of life when I was battling thoughts of giving up. She showed me that I was desperate for my own love. Today, I’m proud to say I love myself and Ms. Maggie Waggie unconditionally.
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Affirmation
I am a work in progress, full of love, strength, and resilience.
I’ll write to y’all soon.
With love,
Jordy
