Living with my grandmother, Mrs. Taylor, has been a journey of rediscovery and growth. I call it home because it’s where most of my childhood was spent. What a blessing she’s been to me, even though I’m not sure if she’d say the same with the increased bills and drama I’ve brought with me! I’m just grateful she hasn’t kicked me out yet. In all seriousness, though, I know she understands, and for that, I’m deeply appreciative of her and this home.
*Updated December 2024: with expanded insights, thoughtful reflections, and prompts to help you connect with your own experiences. Dive in to discover more about the lessons and growth that come from living with family.
Reflecting on What I’ve Learned and Re-Learned
Moving back home has been a lesson in both learning and re-learning. It’s been about peeling back the layers of my identity that life had worn away, rediscovering pieces of myself I had let slip.
Re-Learning My Identity
One of the biggest takeaways has been reconnecting with the strength I had forgotten. Year after year, I allowed the world to strip away bits of who I am, but living with Mrs. Taylor has brought me back to those core parts. I re-learned that my weaknesses, which I once saw as setbacks, have actually become my allies. Understanding the difference between my thoughts, emotions, and actions—it’s been a journey.
Have you ever stopped to question how much of your strength you’ve forgotten? What parts of yourself have you let the world convince you to hide?
I also re-learned that I’m capable of making great decisions, if only I’d trust myself the first time. How often do we doubt ourselves when we already know the right choice deep down? Oh, and let me tell you—I re-learned I can sing, really well and really loud! It’s such a freeing feeling, tapping into those forgotten talents.
Rediscovering Passions
Another beautiful re-discovery was my love for martial arts. I had forgotten how much it lights me up. And then there’s the joy of playing outside—something I’ve always loved. Growing up, I helped Daddy mow Mrs. Taylor’s lawn, and it turns out that yard work is something I still enjoy. It’s not just a task; it’s peaceful, a confidence-builder, and a workout all rolled into one.
What activities from your childhood do you miss? Is there something you used to love that might still bring you joy today?
What I’ve Learned from Living with Mrs. Taylor
Beyond the re-learning, there have been many new lessons too.
Gardening and Patience
Gardening has been a major part of my experience. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions—sometimes frustrating, sometimes serene—but always rewarding. I’ve learned to work in harmony with nature, feeling more connected to the earth than ever before. It’s helped me slow down and appreciate life in a new way.
Have you ever felt that deep connection to nature? How has it impacted your life?
Asking for Help and Building a Home
One thing I’ve always struggled with is asking for help. But living here has taught me that it’s okay to lean on others. I’ve had to adjust to taking care of two dogs, learning how to clean and maintain a home all year round, and, let me tell you, that was a wake-up call! Coming from dorms and apartments, running a full household was a big leap—one I wasn’t fully prepared for. Taxes, bills, rodents… it’s been wild, but year two has arrived, and I’m finally starting to feel like I’ve got it together.
What have you had to learn or unlearn when it comes to managing a home? Have you found any surprises along the way?
Mindset and the Power of Thoughts
Lastly, living here has taught me that there’s power in what you feed your mind. The way you nurture your thoughts directly impacts your reality. If you study the subconscious mind, you’ll know exactly what I mean. If not, trust me—what you focus on grows.
What are you feeding your mind lately? Are you nurturing the life you want?
Embracing Discomfort
Let’s be real, living with Mrs. Taylor hasn’t been easy. Society often tells us that moving back home is a step backward, but I’ve had to push through that discomfort. Being uncomfortable has taught me how to make the most of each day. And, in the process, I’ve gained a friend in my grandmother and a lot of wisdom too.
When was the last time you allowed yourself to be uncomfortable? What did you learn from it?
What’s Next?
I’m not sure when I’ll be leaving Mrs. Taylor’s, but I’ll keep you all updated. For now, I’m just soaking up the lessons, the love, and the life that living here has brought me.
What lessons have your living situations taught you? Have you been surprised by the wisdom you’ve gained from the spaces and people around you?
Affirmation
I embrace every lesson and every moment of growth with gratitude, knowing that I am exactly where I need to be to rediscover my strength, nurture my passions, and honor the journey of becoming my truest self.
Write to y’all soon
Jordy
